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Live as though you know…

There are those who know.

They walk around as though they know- think, smile and talk as if they know and live as if they know.

They have stopped to ask themselves the ‘hows’ and ‘whys’ in life, because they know…

They know they deserve nothing less than to know.

Why? Because they decided to know.
They decided: I deserve this and nothing less than the best in my life.

And you know what?
In the end everything turns out the way they knew it would… because their trust and inner knowing became so powerful.

No matter what.. don’t ‘believe’ or ‘think’ it KNOW.
Live AS IF.

Release your doubts and know that the world is here to fulfill your truest, most inner heartfelt desires.

Test it if you must… Give it a week, a month, a year. Buy truly, TRULY KNOW it! And let the world transform into your inner vision, right in front of your eyes!

For when you know, the doubt is gone.
The fear moved on and you are stepping into your vortex.

And you know what?

The world comes to those… who know.
With their heart and soul.

If your vibration is that of one who is in ecstasy, in joy, in love AND bliss, you will give all of yourself to your highest vision.

And that’s what we need.

The world needs more of those ‘who know’.

La Ara

The Goddess – and mens’ fear of strong women…

I used to look at the women, the main characters in movies, shows and books, the ones that got to be with the men they loved – at least at the end.

I always wondered what it was that made them a queen, a star, a beautiful, fully present divine feminine goddess!

I spent many years of research on the divine masculine and the men who are not stepping into their power – who may want to but in the end don’t do the work which leads to fear of “strong women” (my finale in psychology was “Mens’ fear of strong women”, including a book that was written by a german (male) psychotherapist with the same title).

One of the most important and powerful messages I found – and this goes out to men and women – is:

DON’T YOU DARE COMPARE YOURSELF WITH ANYONE ELSE.
The main character tries to fit in and follow rules, but only when s/he has learned that s/he has accept her/his uniqueness, will s/he be magnificent and the other person will want to be with her/him – before that, drama happens – anger, pain, inner and outer conflicts…

Now back to the fabulous females amongst us…

The goddess-queen is she

who accepts her crown and her glory.
who demands respect – not to be treated in an unrespectful way…
whose eyes glow with inner fire
who always speaks from the heart and whose heart is pure
who steps into the responsability of being herself
who walks her own path
who has no desire to compare herself to anyone else
who shines her inner light of peace into the world
who is not afraid to manifest and make the world her own
who loves her body fully – no matter what shape and form it has
who loves herself unconditionally – this is the only way to love anyone else limitless…

Men who are afraid of strong women are the ones who feel inferior – who want to rule women – live traditonally like a few hundred years ago: women are only meant to be in the kitchen and take care of kids – while men work and bring money home.
Men who are afraid of the new and who are not able to be vulnerable (which is true strength).
Those men are the ones who used to hide in churches as priests and would say that women (“witches”) seduced them and had a contract with the devil – who was a male of course and was controlling of them 😛

More will be said, but that is it for right now.

Dear Gods and Goddesses!

SHINE!

Spread the love
Be role models – don’t wait for other god/desses to wake up!

YOU are the ones who change your world within – which will lead to a world of peace!

And so it is! So ham.

La Ara
fellow-goddess and lover of this truly incredible world!!!

Growing into love – the change within

Sometimes you grow into love.

Sometimes you know very early that you love this person and that you want to be with that person – but you are not ready – you are not aware of this person’s value and the value inside of you – so you doubt, you are afraid and you think you can’t contribute to the other persons’ growth.
And you make mistakes. Mistakes you regret, mistakes through which you learn – mistakes of value, that change your whole being – e.g. you go out with someone else only to find yourself crying in bed because you feel lonelier than ever.
Then you realize that you no longer are in need of being with someone just because you want to “be with someone” – and you stop.
And you learn.
And you change.
You look within.
You go inside and find your own value, your own worthiness.
Sometimes it takes a special person to transform you.
This person touched you and you knew something was there from the beginning but you did not define it as “love”.
So you go and search. First outside of yourself and then within – and you find yourself within your selflove – you learn to be happy with yourself – learn to go away from distraction – see yourself as the angel. the god/goddess that you are and you appreciate even more what that special-someone did to even bring you to this point.
You start to smile without anyone else in the room because you are happy, truly happy and appreciative of every moment you are alive – with yourself and with others.
You know that love is everywhere and you learn to love everything.

And yet you know as you knew from the start that you love this other person in another way and that you only want what’s best for him/her.
You find that you are worthy of being with the other person and you can contribute to the others’ life and experience.
You learn that both of you are equal – alike and yet so different.

Meeting someone else doesn’t always come with that big bang and the perfect knowledge that he/she is the one and with mutual feelings. Sometimes you have to give it time. Grow on each other. Help the other person see who you truly are and not who he/she thought you to be…
Maybe you will stay in the background for a while and be the supporting role in your own play.
You step aside to help the other one to shine – and shine yourself through selfless acts. And later on you go back to shining yourself.

I have met people who don’t think that it’s possible that others can change and become different people – but I’ve gone through this myself – so I know…

People change, mostly to the better. We are not the same today as we were yesterday – with every day there is more consciousness – with every experience you grow and you can achieve more than you would have ever imagined.

And in time, you become the perfect partner for the other without even realizing it. Because you learned through your past.

Once you are there you just have to let go of the past and trust the inner glow the both of you felt from the start.

Stand your ground, believe in miracles and that they come naturally when both of you are ready. Trust that the other person will be guided through dreams and signs. Let the universe take over…

And the magic will occur…

Responsability and Unawareness

We allowed our consciousness to be filled with fog as we grew up… – as babies we knew everything but by going through so-called “bad” exeriences, we continued to deny what we knew and fell into a sleep of not-knowing.

Lifetimes after lifetimes, but also year after year within one life.

Until books and people crossed our paths and opened our eyes – reminded us who we truly are, reveiled our destiny.

We learned that life is not about surviving, not just about eating, drinking, working, sleeping.

We started to understand our light and shine it into our worlds by discovering our uniqueness…

Yet forces from the outside world wanted to dance with our ego-of-fear and denied us any moment of inner knowing, of deep understanding within… by sending us to school in which we learned a lot of stuff we didn’t need later on. By giving us the feeling that in order of having a good job, we’d need great education – THEIR education – becoming their working-zombies…

The more we lived on earth, the more we believed that earth became dangerous, that we were powerless – that everyone and everything was turning against us – and filled with fear – of losing ourselves and with ourselves the world – we hid behind so-called rules of the outside world, we built walls around our hearts...

We stopped feeling what’s going on within us and numbed ourselves down with distractions from the outside world.

We played computer games, watched tv, drank alcohol, took drugs and lost ourselves by distracting ourselves with others – i.e. one night stands – do you even know how important your body is, your temple, your beautiful vessel and that you should only share it with another person if that person is good for you, shares inner visions with you, if you can enrich yourselves with each other, if your love towards each other is real? It takes a bit more than just to look into each others’ eyes, to share such sacredness as sexuality, unless you have the feeling of knowing each other from many lifetimes before… but sexuality for sport? please… don’t distract yourself with someone in order to forget yourself. You are way to sacred and important to let someone else in who doesn’t see you as a beautiful soul but as a distraction him/herself.

What happened to our dreams, the dreams we had as children, the inner knowing that we had a destiny to fulfill, the knowing as children that each and everyone of us was a prince/princess, a super hero?!?!
Mass consciousness is not easy to transform – to get out of: looking at all the horror in the movies and in books alone, we don’t really have the chance, if we don’t look within ourselves. If you study the brain and a little psychology and know about mental training, you will discover that the mind doesn’t “know” if something is happening to you in “reality” or in “illusion”.

So we’ve gone through thousands of deaths already, have suffered many endings of relationships  (without having had one relationship) and lost thousands of friends and family members just by looking into the outside world, looking at a little box in front of us that showed us how “life” works in the mind of the masses…

With all of that that’s going on “out there” we refuse to see what’s inside of us and that everything we go through is a projection of what has been within us all of the time – a projection of what we “learned” from the outside world… from “experience” or things people tell us, things we read or “see”.

Unaware of all of this, because we never learned this, we walk through life, entertain ourselves with movies and computer games and think it’s fiction, but we have undergone it every time we “saw” it, “read” it or played it.

It’s our choice to “see” that and to change the way we perceive reality…

We – the mass – play computer games every day where there is war, killing – we only succeed if we kill to get to our goals. 
Is it surprising that people feel number inside themselve every day, teenagers get more brutal, that we all get immune towards what happens in our hearts?
This is exactly what the powers outside of us want: they want us to be scared, to scream out for “help” so they can make even more rules – and one day, if we continue to live unaware – the possability is high that we will no longer have rights and will be locked up whenever we say something “against” their rules (maybe even if we think freely).

This may all sound “frightening” to us…

Yet, there is a solution:

In order for this not to become our reality, we have to wake up to ourselves. Not to the mass propaganda but to our unique selves.

We all have the responsability to awaken, to become aware of what’s going on – not by looking outside of ourselves but by going within. By understanding that this all is real, that we attract what our unawareness brings forth.

It’s time to lift the fog inside of us – the fog that tells us that we “don’t know” anything – the feeling of being helpless, steered and controlled.

No one has the power to do something with you, if you listen to yourself. If you live responsible (towards YOURSELF). If you SELECT the things you watch (Matrix e.g. shows it all, there is much more reality to this filme than you may think), play and read instead of feeding the mass consciousness with fear inside your heart (stope reading and watching the news every day. Read about the people who made a change in this world, if you want to start with Jesus in the bible, go ahead, but there are many other terrific people out there that you can compare yourself to, if you need another superhero and don’t want to makes yourself to one right away – I said RIGHT AWAY, because You are the superhero in your story – you are the one you have been waiting for or the once you have been taught to wait for in all of the hero stories you read or heard about. It’s you, never someone else. Only YOU can change the world – don’t let others do it for you…

My title is “Responsability and Unawareness” for a reason. You have your own responability to yourself and to the world. How will you receive it? From the place of Love or of Fear? How will you tell your story? Will you be the super hero or the supporting role, supporting the one-who-will-never-come because it was always you, you have been waiting for?

Knowing all of this it’s up to you now to make the next step. Be aware of how much you walk around like a zombie, following orders of other instead of the orders of your true self, your heart.

Make a difference by not believing everything you hear from others – you don’t have to fit in – you should stick out and be the one-you-are-meant-to-be.

Spread the light of awakening, not through fear but through hope, joy, love and laughter.

you can do it – every single one of us has a destiny. Don’t react, act first. Be selective with what you do, see, say, read and with whome you surround yourself. Exchange your ideas of your inner wisdom with the outside world when you are ready. Be with like-minded people who support you in your knowing. And with the people who are caught within the mass consciousness: be the seed that spreads the truth – that there is nothing to fear, only your subconscious mind that is being steered by the mass consciousness. Step out of others’ truth that doesn’t resonate with your inner knowing – question EVERYTHING you’ve learned, especially in school.

see what is buried deep down within your subconsciousness. There are many ways of doing this, even without the help of the ouside world, just by going within. Let the answers you are seeking for come from within you. There is a saying that to every question you already have the answer.

Start by becoming aware of your day-to-day thoughts, write them down, especially when you realize that they are recurring ones; take a piece of paper and just write for a few minutes without thinking about it – read it through and you will see if you are more negative than positive. Don’t judge it, just realize it and go from there.

It’s up to you to change the world by changing yourself from within yourself.

And so it is.

Namaste