Tag Archives: Change

Relationships

When you’re in a relationship, it’s just about the two of you.

Starting something new means the past is over, done. There are lessons from the past and possible pain from the past, but the person you are with now has nothing to do with the past itself.

S/he is your future, so make sure you have an open heart and don’t think you pull a person into your life with the same patterns.

Let go before you step into a future with this person.

Learn to trust this new feeling you have now. We are not here to repeat our personal history. It’s simply a story you lived through.

Remember this:

Every day is new and magical.

So allow yourself to let this magnificent feeling of butterflies fluttering through your body and soul, in.

Rise and shine to this new adventure called feeling of bliss, loving and being loved in return.

If you don’t think you are lovable, how do you think can others love you?!? And if someone else loves you, do you believe it? Or are you looking for reasons why a person simply can not love you?!?
‘I am not good enough, not pretty enough, too intense, too deep’, whatever excuse you will look for… are all excuses because you don’t love and believe in yourself enough…

Allow yourself the chance to completely rise in love with your love and your selflove!

La Ara

 

Live as though you know…

There are those who know.

They walk around as though they know- think, smile and talk as if they know and live as if they know.

They have stopped to ask themselves the ‘hows’ and ‘whys’ in life, because they know…

They know they deserve nothing less than to know.

Why? Because they decided to know.
They decided: I deserve this and nothing less than the best in my life.

And you know what?
In the end everything turns out the way they knew it would… because their trust and inner knowing became so powerful.

No matter what.. don’t ‘believe’ or ‘think’ it KNOW.
Live AS IF.

Release your doubts and know that the world is here to fulfill your truest, most inner heartfelt desires.

Test it if you must… Give it a week, a month, a year. Buy truly, TRULY KNOW it! And let the world transform into your inner vision, right in front of your eyes!

For when you know, the doubt is gone.
The fear moved on and you are stepping into your vortex.

And you know what?

The world comes to those… who know.
With their heart and soul.

If your vibration is that of one who is in ecstasy, in joy, in love AND bliss, you will give all of yourself to your highest vision.

And that’s what we need.

The world needs more of those ‘who know’.

La Ara

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

If I would say
only talk about things you truly believe in and live by
you would probably agree with me: that sounds absolutely right and doable…

But the question is:

Do we do that?
Do we really do that? Are we living by that which we are saying? Do we truly trust that only good things happen to us?

If you truly believe in something, you don’t have to repeat it over and over again, because you know it’s going to happen.

If you “know”, someone loves you, you won’t say: but he loves me, I am sure he loves me – I can feel he loves me. Awww but he doesn’t love me. Or DOES he love me? Why doesn’t he call me? He said he’d be there, he didn’t come. No, he doesn’t love me… But yet, he loves me… right???

or:

I am good at this job. I am great at this job. Damn, I suck. I am so bad at this – and yet, I am meant for this job. Why don’t I get a promotion? Man, I want a promotion! But I’m so bad at this. Come on now! I deserve it!!!

Can you see how often you contradict yourself with your own words? Sometimes even within one or two sentences…

We are sending out so many mixed signals into the world, to our friends and families that the universe often throws its hands up in dispair ūüėČ
Those insecurities inside ourselves, make miracles/magic/wishes impossible to come true.

If we order something at amazon, we don’t call or write them every day and ask if they sent our order away, do we?
We know it will arrive – we are excited about it – it will be here any day soon – but we will not walk around with mixed emotions of maybe – maybe nots.

I myself have come to the point where I realized – there are many things I trust in.
But then there are the biggest dreams – the highest goals, wishes, desires that I have – that seem so far away – like: being with the man I love, having a career as a singer, a healer – there is so much more that I want to do in this life – I want to write, I want to entertain, to inspire… – and there are moments where I believe I will never reach any of them.

Until now I did not feel worthy enough.
I didn’t trust that I deserve my dreams to come true.

Who really believes in miracles?
“Miracles are for others – not for me.” “They are Fairytales”.

So here’s the thing:

If YOU don’t believe in yourself and that you are here for a reason – if YOU don’t KNOW deep inside of you, that you can achieve everything you ever desired – who will?
WHO will if not you?

It’s wonderful to have people who believe in you – it’s amazing to have parents behind you, amazing friends who tell you, you are awesome and you’ll make it big – but if you don’t start to trust your heart, your imagination and that there is something BIG happening for you out there, as soon as you truly believe in yourself – you will never get there.

Start to listen to yourself when you speak.

Are you postive when it comes to your self-awareness and your qualities?
As an artist, a writer, a healer, a doctor Рno matter what you do Рdo you believe (or even better: KNOW) that you have a valuable contribution to give to the world?

Are you able to inspire with words, thoughts or deeds?

If you only had one day to live, what would you do? What do you want others to remember you by?

Are you ready?

Then go out there and fulfill your DESTINY!
Change the world by changing your inner world.

Be the unique YOU that you are meant to be… don’t try to be like anyone¬†else – there are enough out there who already are, yet only very few who are aware of their true being.

  Be one of those!!!

Dare to be different!

Trust in your beauty! Your Awesomness!! Your Power!!!

And Please:

Be careful what you say about yourself. Keep a positve, beautiful picture of yourself in mind, the highest version of yourself – don’t trust others opinions who think they may know you…

Discern what you know about yourself from what you heard about yourself. Be honest if you haven’t gotten to the best self-image yet. You are able to glow and shine within an instant, by changing your self-perception and projecting this new version of you into the world! Go and be! Flow, enjoy the world. See it with new eyes – the eyes of the marvellous¬†you that you are…

You have the choice to see yourself with new eyes EVERY DAY.
Let every cell of your body feel your inner beauty! You will see – the perception of the outer world will change if you change your inner world and become aware of the fact that you are a soul with a vessel to move around with and enjoy what the world has to give you!

Love to you all!!!

La Ara

From an empty vessel to a beaming Goddess

A year ago when i arrived in New York, I felt like an empty vessel.
All I wanted to do was being liked by others. I didn’t even realize what an impact I had on other people, how much I hurt them or attracted others to me because they saw me as easy-to-control. ‘Oh, she is new to this place, I will protect her’. (Please? I am getting along better in New York than some who have lived here forever.)
My walls were so high that I often blanked out and for the past 12 years I lost¬†myself so much, that I didn’t even feel myself.
I remember my Ma and me at singing lessons.

She said: hold your hands up high and feel your hands tingle.
I hardly ever did.

 

It’s amazing what a ‘normal’ life you can have as a puppet ~ a robot.
Empty eyes, sadness, and this urge to finally wake up, live your own life…

When I was a young girl, I had the most beautiful life someone could ever imagine. My dad might have not always been there, being on tour as a conductor, but oh, I had two wonderful parents, who truly and deeply loved me… not to mention they still love me – to the moon and back – as this wonderful saying goes… ūüėČ

 

 

And eventhough my parents aren’t together anymore, their love for me is what will always keep us together, as a team.

But these thoughts of emptiness and sadness are often not even your thoughts Рthese are thoughts of the mass consciousness.

You are controlled by something else, a higher authority. Your thoughts, your brain only spit out things that you have been told by others.

Thoughts are always there, like the many radio channels we can¬†listen to any second of the day… – the question is,¬†what do you tune in to…?

Going through a lot of trauma of losing many people and going through a depression and the desire of everybody loving me, I started to live my life in a very passive way. Back then half of my life was watching tv. Instead of having real experiences. I lived through others’ eyes. Through Tv, books and my friends’ stories. I lived as the girl-next-door or even as my own supporting role.

I don’t regret it. This has definitely been an interesting journey. And I learned a lot just by listening to other peoples’ experiences.

But I’ve awakened now. I embrace my former self and kiss it goodbye, say hello to the strong, most beautiful version of myself ~ the strong entertainer, healer, goddess who is meant for something great here on earth ~ for my life is just beginning now and I won’t let my mind dictate what my heart knows is going to be.

 

La Ara

Growing into love – the change within

Sometimes you grow into love.

Sometimes you know very early that you love this person and that you want to be with that person – but you are not ready – you are not aware of this person’s value and the value inside of you – so you doubt, you are afraid and you think you can’t contribute to the other persons’ growth.
And you make mistakes. Mistakes you regret, mistakes through which you learn – mistakes of value, that change your whole being – e.g. you go out with someone else only to find yourself crying in bed because you feel lonelier than ever.
Then you realize that you no longer are in need of being with someone just because you want to “be with someone” – and you stop.
And you learn.
And you change.
You look within.
You go inside and find your own value, your own worthiness.
Sometimes it takes a special person to transform you.
This person touched you and you knew something was there from the beginning but you did not define it as “love”.
So you go and search. First outside of yourself and then within – and you find yourself within your selflove – you learn to be happy with yourself – learn to go away from distraction – see yourself as the angel. the god/goddess that you are and you appreciate even more what that special-someone did to even bring you to this point.
You start to smile without anyone else in the room because you are happy, truly happy and appreciative of every moment you are alive – with yourself and with others.
You know that love is everywhere and you learn to love everything.

And yet you know as you knew from the start that you love this other person in another way and that you only want what’s best for him/her.
You find that you are worthy of being with the other person and you can contribute to the others’ life and experience.
You learn that both of you are equal – alike and yet so different.

Meeting someone else doesn’t always come with that big bang and the perfect knowledge that he/she is the one and with mutual feelings. Sometimes you have to give it time. Grow on each other. Help the other person see who you truly are and not who he/she thought you to be…
Maybe you will stay in the background for a while and be the supporting role in your own play.
You step aside to help the other one to shine – and shine yourself through selfless acts. And later on you go back to shining yourself.

I have met people who don’t think that it’s possible that others can change and become different people – but I’ve gone through this myself – so I know…

People change, mostly to the better. We are not the same today as we were yesterday – with every day there is more consciousness – with every experience you grow and you can achieve more than you would have ever imagined.

And in time, you become the perfect partner for the other without even realizing it. Because you learned through your past.

Once you are there you just have to let go of the past and trust the inner glow the both of you felt from the start.

Stand your ground, believe in miracles and that they come naturally when both of you are ready. Trust that the other person will be guided through dreams and signs. Let the universe take over…

And the magic will occur…

Responsability and Unawareness

We allowed our consciousness to be filled with fog as we grew up… – as babies we knew everything but by going through so-called “bad” exeriences, we continued to deny what we knew and fell into a sleep of not-knowing.

Lifetimes after lifetimes, but also year after year within one life.

Until books and people crossed our paths and opened our eyes – reminded us who we truly are, reveiled our destiny.

We learned that life is not about surviving, not just about eating, drinking, working, sleeping.

We started to understand our light and shine it into our worlds by discovering our uniqueness…

Yet forces from the outside world wanted to dance with our ego-of-fear and denied us any moment of inner knowing, of deep understanding within… by sending us to school in which we learned a lot of stuff we didn’t need later on. By giving us the feeling that in order of having a good job, we’d need great education – THEIR education – becoming their working-zombies…

The more we lived on earth, the more we believed that earth became dangerous, that we were powerless – that everyone and everything was turning against us – and filled with fear – of losing ourselves and with ourselves the world – we hid behind so-called rules of the outside world, we built walls around our hearts...

We stopped feeling what’s going on within us and numbed ourselves down with distractions from the outside world.

We played computer games, watched tv, drank alcohol, took drugs and lost ourselves by distracting ourselves with others – i.e. one night stands – do you even know how important your body is, your temple, your beautiful vessel and that you should only share it with another person if that person is good for you, shares inner visions with you, if you can enrich yourselves with each other, if your love towards each other is real? It takes a bit more than just to look into each others’ eyes, to share such sacredness as sexuality, unless you have the feeling of knowing each other from many lifetimes before… but sexuality for sport? please… don’t distract yourself with someone in order to forget yourself. You are way to sacred and important to let someone else in who doesn’t see you as a beautiful soul but as a distraction him/herself.

What happened to our dreams, the dreams we had as children, the inner knowing that we had a destiny to fulfill, the knowing as children that each and everyone of us was a prince/princess, a super hero?!?!
Mass consciousness is not easy to transform – to get out of: looking at all the horror in the movies and in books alone, we don’t really have the chance, if we don’t look within ourselves. If you study the brain and a little psychology and know about mental training, you will discover that the mind doesn’t “know” if something is happening to you in “reality” or in “illusion”.

So we’ve gone through thousands of deaths already, have suffered many endings of relationships ¬†(without having had one relationship) and lost thousands of friends and family members just by looking into the outside world, looking at a little box in front of us that showed us how “life” works in the mind of the masses…

With all of that that’s going on “out there” we refuse to see what’s inside of us and that everything we go through is a projection of what has been within us all of the time – a projection of what we “learned” from the outside world… from “experience” or things people tell us, things we read or “see”.

Unaware of all of this, because we never learned this, we walk through life, entertain ourselves with movies and computer games and think it’s fiction, but we have undergone it every time we “saw” it, “read” it or played it.

It’s our choice to “see” that and to change the way we perceive reality…

We Рthe mass Рplay computer games every day where there is war, killing Рwe only succeed if we kill to get to our goals. 
Is it surprising that people feel number inside themselve every day, teenagers get more brutal, that we all get immune towards what happens in our hearts?
This is exactly what the powers outside of us want: they want us to be scared, to scream out for “help” so they can make even more rules – and one day, if we continue to live unaware – the possability is high that we will no longer have rights and will be locked up whenever we say something “against” their rules (maybe even if we think freely).

This may all sound “frightening” to us…

Yet, there is a solution:

In order for this not to become our reality, we have to wake up to ourselves. Not to the mass propaganda but to our unique selves.

We all have the responsability to awaken, to become aware of what’s going on – not by looking outside of ourselves but by going within. By understanding that this all is real, that we attract what our unawareness brings forth.

It’s time to lift the fog inside of us – the fog that tells us that we “don’t know” anything – the feeling of being helpless, steered and controlled.

No one has the power to do something with you, if you listen to yourself. If you live responsible (towards YOURSELF). If you SELECT the things you watch (Matrix e.g. shows it all, there is much more reality to this filme than you may think), play and read instead of feeding the mass consciousness with fear inside your heart (stope reading and watching the news every day. Read about the people who made a change in this world, if you want to start with Jesus in the bible, go ahead, but there are many other terrific people out there that you can compare yourself to, if you need another superhero and don’t want to makes yourself to one right away – I said RIGHT AWAY, because You are the superhero in your story – you are the one you have been waiting for or the once you have been taught to wait for in all of the hero stories you read or heard about. It’s you, never someone else. Only YOU can change the world – don’t let others do it for you…

My title is “Responsability and Unawareness” for a reason. You have your own responability to yourself and to the world. How will you receive it? From the place of Love or of Fear? How will you tell your story? Will you be the super hero or the supporting role, supporting the one-who-will-never-come because it was always you, you have been waiting for?

Knowing all of this it’s up to you now to make the next step. Be aware of how much you walk around like a zombie, following orders of other instead of the orders of your true self, your heart.

Make a difference by not believing everything you hear from others – you don’t have to fit in – you should stick out and be the one-you-are-meant-to-be.

Spread the light of awakening, not through fear but through hope, joy, love and laughter.

you can do it – every single one of us has a destiny. Don’t react, act first. Be selective with what you do, see, say, read and with whome you surround yourself. Exchange your ideas of your inner wisdom with the outside world when you are ready. Be with like-minded people who support you in your knowing. And with the people who are caught within the mass consciousness: be the seed that spreads the truth – that there is nothing to fear, only your subconscious mind that is being steered by the mass consciousness. Step out of others’ truth that doesn’t resonate with your inner knowing – question EVERYTHING you’ve learned, especially in school.

see what is buried deep down within your subconsciousness. There are many ways of doing this, even without the help of the ouside world, just by going within. Let the answers you are seeking for come from within you. There is a saying that to every question you already have the answer.

Start by becoming aware of your day-to-day thoughts, write them down, especially when you realize that they are recurring ones; take a piece of paper and just write for a few minutes without thinking about it – read it through and you will see if you are more negative than positive. Don’t judge it, just realize it and go from there.

It’s up to you to change the world by changing yourself from within yourself.

And so it is.

Namaste