Love Poem to my King when I didn’t know him yet

close your eyes…
I take you by the hand…
Don’t be surprised,
I’ll make you understand…

So many wonderful things
can happen to us –
In our phantasies we have wings .
And in each other we trust…

Filled with imagination –
A new creation:
Whatever you want to do –
Can be done for you!
Surrounded by love,
You can fill the skies above –
With all you desire –
Gonna set the world on fire…

Whenever you see me –
Come a little closer –
I want to see what you see –
Don’t wanna lose ya…

Through your eyes and my heart –
We can dive into madness –
Make a new start –
Let go of irateness…

Filled with imagination –
A new creation:
Whatever you want to do –
Can be done for you!
Surrounded by love,
You can fill the skies above –
With all you desire –
Put the world on fire…

The world stops turning –
You turn around to me –
Our hearts start burning –
They’re filled with Ecstacy…

And we’re
Filled with imagination –
A new creation:
Whatever you want to do –
Can be done for you!
Surrounded by love,
You can fill the skies above –
With all you desire –
Put the world on fire…

written by

La Ara Dec. 17th 2013

Infinite Happiness

We are afraid that our happiness ends one day.
We think we can only take so much.

Who SAYS that?
Everyone else?
Are you eveyone else?

We BELIEVE that we must fall when we climb a mountain – again this is something we LEARN.

YOU have never lived before – not in this form anyway.
What if you can live in a constant state of ecstacy (without drugs, alcohol or any other artificial help) by choosing so?

Think about it…

Allow yourself to be happy.
Allow yourself to dream!

We are filled with fear, looking at all the responsabilities.
Thinking:

“something terrible will happen, if I allow myself to be infinetely happy!”

So we can not be in a constant state of amazement, but in a constant state of anger, sadness, numbness? How does that make sense???

We are being pulled into fear and hate right now.
And isn’t it exhausting?????

Can you feel your heart raise every time you hear the news, people talking about possible war and threats, death???

But it’s the mass consciousness. They try to scare you. WHY?
Because that is how the “public” gets you to live in the reptilian. How you become an “animal” instead of a human being…
And you constantly fight against an invisible enemy… no one is really here to fight against, it’s all in your brain – and your brain makes you believe it’s real!!!!!

BUT THIS IS NOT REALLY YOU!!! YOU ARE PEACEful and kind… a beautiful, being filled with laughter, with love. Doesn’t it relax you to actually read this?!?
But that does not serve the public. It does not serve “them”. So…
Let THEM go:

Learn to filter and to discern whether what you are going through is you – or someone/something else.

And if it is you, remember who and where you got it from.
We are being taught to live in fear. Every day of our lives. If not through parents then through movies, news, radio, magazines, in other words: through the public.

Let it go.
Right here and now, close your eyes and breath.
One more time.
Breath deeply.
Think about something beautiful, something or someone that makes you happy.

Be aware of this – breath in joy, breath out anger or sadness.

Do this a few times, conscously.

COME ON! If you have time to breath, you can consciously breath happiness into your heart, too!!!

And then when you breath out – let everything go that bothers you.

Right here in this moment – is peace, is love, is YOU!
Right here you can smile. Be happy.
Be blanc. Be tabula rasa, a wall that is unwritten. Think hakuna matata: you gotta put the past behind you.

And now…

Have a beautiful day, and allow yourself to be ecstatic!

 

La Ara

The Goddess – and mens’ fear of strong women…

I used to look at the women, the main characters in movies, shows and books, the ones that got to be with the men they loved – at least at the end.

I always wondered what it was that made them a queen, a star, a beautiful, fully present divine feminine goddess!

I spent many years of research on the divine masculine and the men who are not stepping into their power – who may want to but in the end don’t do the work which leads to fear of “strong women” (my finale in psychology was “Mens’ fear of strong women”, including a book that was written by a german (male) psychotherapist with the same title).

One of the most important and powerful messages I found – and this goes out to men and women – is:

DON’T YOU DARE COMPARE YOURSELF WITH ANYONE ELSE.
The main character tries to fit in and follow rules, but only when s/he has learned that s/he has accept her/his uniqueness, will s/he be magnificent and the other person will want to be with her/him – before that, drama happens – anger, pain, inner and outer conflicts…

Now back to the fabulous females amongst us…

The goddess-queen is she

who accepts her crown and her glory.
who demands respect – not to be treated in an unrespectful way…
whose eyes glow with inner fire
who always speaks from the heart and whose heart is pure
who steps into the responsability of being herself
who walks her own path
who has no desire to compare herself to anyone else
who shines her inner light of peace into the world
who is not afraid to manifest and make the world her own
who loves her body fully – no matter what shape and form it has
who loves herself unconditionally – this is the only way to love anyone else limitless…

Men who are afraid of strong women are the ones who feel inferior – who want to rule women – live traditonally like a few hundred years ago: women are only meant to be in the kitchen and take care of kids – while men work and bring money home.
Men who are afraid of the new and who are not able to be vulnerable (which is true strength).
Those men are the ones who used to hide in churches as priests and would say that women (“witches”) seduced them and had a contract with the devil – who was a male of course and was controlling of them 😛

More will be said, but that is it for right now.

Dear Gods and Goddesses!

SHINE!

Spread the love
Be role models – don’t wait for other god/desses to wake up!

YOU are the ones who change your world within – which will lead to a world of peace!

And so it is! So ham.

La Ara
fellow-goddess and lover of this truly incredible world!!!

My essence is Love

I am all about love.

I AM love. Everything that has interested me in my life was love.
Love for the world, love for the special someone, love for myself.
You grow in love.

Every single day gives you the opportunity to go deeper into that which you call love.

To ask yourself, WHY someone has such a deep impact on you, why you are filled with a song when you see the beauty of the man you love.
Why you would do EVERYTHING to support those you love.

Love is meant to be lived, meant to be felt. It’s our daily motivation, inspiration and “powertrain”.

Sometimes it takes a lot of patience. You learn every day.
Often people give up too fast. They think: okay, it’s not meant to be. Or they think: it’s too hard.

But what I learned is that it’s worth the wait. It’s worth not letting go – only going deeper.
We have patterns within us that keep us from simply loving someone. And if we don’t see them through with someone we love – they will happen with the next person as well.

It’s all about being love without regret.
Giving without expecting to get the same things in return.

I give – and it’s selfish because it makes me happy to see someone else happy.

To see the glow in the mans’ eye, the glow that I so love. Being able to make someone happy – even if it’s just for a moment – to see that person grow and fully become who he’s meant to be – THIS makes me feel extraordinarily lucky.

It’s the present I present myself with.

Love is a never ending source within you. Just learn to let go of ideas that restrain you from the the inner joy of loving and being loved in return – because you are loved. Always.

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Who I am

There are no limits to who I am.
One day I’m this way, next I won’t give a damn.
It is you who has the way I see you in your hand,
You’ll have to be the one who brings me to your promised land.

I can be fire, i can be storm,
awaken desire or keep you warm.
Routine is a word i never knew,
If you are bored, it has to do with you.

Once you awaken my heart with your gold,
I will.reveal you things that.were never told.
In old scriptures they are not to find,
And even less inside your mind.

I will embody what your spirit needs,
I’ll be your muse and plant some seeds.
I demand attention when you are with me,
Then I will take you to places, and make you see.

Stop thinking too much,
Allow the touch,
Of inspiration ~
Filled with loads of sensation.

You think a woman can only be,
Either lover or friend or family.
But I have learned that one woman is all,
And that’s what I embody, so let yourself fall!!!

La Ara

Desires, Responsabilities and Readiness

We say we are ready to be with the man we have dreamed of. But are we?
Most of our men have been truly hurt in the past. Hurt from past ralationships and they will bring their shadows with them.
Shadows of fear and loneliness, of being left alone after opening up to us. Are we ready to face their demons, to help them sooth their souls? Or are we going to take it personally? And transform from an angel they first saw to the demon he projects on us?
Even if the past has nothing to do with us, we will bring up their wounds, unless they have completely worked through them. But WHEN do we ever do that? When are we ever through?
When are we blank walls where no one has ever written on us – and erased or corrected a part of the innocence that we once were?
Truth is that we always come with packages. Even if we haven’t had a relationship, we come with wounds of feeling rejected from others. Wounds from our child, wounds from physical, emotional pain and misunderstandings from the past.
If your man opens up to you, are you able to listen? Are you able to help him transform, let go, release, realize that you are not the same? Are you ready?
We don’t live in a fairy tale where our man was the first we ever loved or you were the first he ever loved. That’s an illusion.
Yes, no one is the same, no one has had the same experience as any other And yet… we are the same because we all have had experienced some kind of pain.
That’s why we have the responsability, to work on us as much as we can. So we will be able to start with new love, new hope, new desire and not project our past wounds on new relationships.
It is doable, if we learn to understand where our other half is coming from. It starts with the childhood, continues with growing up and ends where you start with him. The new beginning.
So, if he opens up to you, don’t feel jealousy or envy. Yes, there were other women before you – yes, he was with other women before you. But what is past is past and it is important that you can listen to him without the urge of comparrison.
If a man opens up to you, he longs for your understanding, your kindness, your love – he doesn’t want to feel your anger or jealousy, he opens up because he hopes that you are the one who is the angel he first saw in you and he hopes and wishes that you are not like everyone else – that you are the one he has been dreaming of and waiting for all of his life.
So I ask you one more time, are you ready to take the responsability and be there for the man you dream about and the love you desire?
La Ara

Lilith – divine feminine Goddess not a demon!

From what I sense of her, she is one of the most beautiful and strongest embodiments of the divine feminine. She is the one who truly accepted her pure, feminine path.
Just because she did not do as Adam said, does not mean that she was a snake, that she was evil in any form. No. She wanted to be her own wo-man and not be oppressed by man(kind).
She was the Yin to Adams Yang but he wanted her to obey, not have a soulmate by his side who was equal – he wanted someone to serve him.
So she left him and went “beyond” that which we call paradise.
She to me is stronger than Kali.
I feel her presence around me and she is the strongest feminine source there is. Eve only represents the negative form of women – negative in the form of: feeling she is nothing without Adam, then again listening to her fears inside her mind. She represents the shy, uncertain little princess that waits for her shining armor.
She was made of Adams rib, so she was destined to be his and serve him. She had no choice but to love him, whereas Lilith was free in will and if she would have decided to stay with Adam, out of her own choice, we could have called it true love and a soulmate relationship.
Lilith represents the queen. Strong, beautiful, following nothing but her heart and in no way will she let a man rule her life. She is her own and no one can ever demand her what to do.
Men are afraid of her because they can not manipulate her. Only a strong man who truly knows his place in the world will be able to be her PARTNER, her king, the warrior beside the warrior.
Yin and Yang – Lilith and Adam.
Eve is the old picture of women in the past centuries. Sweet, kind, nice, polite, boring, mothers to the children of men, the women in the kitchen, cooking for their beloveds.
I am not putting women who are like this down in any way, if this is the calling for some – I was one of them myself for the longest time, accept for the cooking 😉
It is all a question of choice but in no way are any of them to talk down, they represent two different sides of the femine path, that is all.
A woman like Eve is taught by her father that a girl must do what her man wants her to do. She will teach her children what she learned from her parents. She would even allow her husband to lay a hand on her and defend him in front of her friends who worry about her – her reply would always be: “He didn’t mean to hurt me. He loves me and – I love him”.
The world has changed. It is time for women to stand up and be in their power and transform to the divine feminine.
This is not about demons, Lilith is not one of them, this is about fear. Fear of change, of transformation. Fear of someone who is different – a gypsy, a wicca, simply her own without listening to what others say. Lilith simply did what an Empress /a queen / a goddess should be doing. And for that she was expelled – or let herself out of “paradise”.
But to live with a man who does not see her as equal – is that truly PARADISE?
Are you going to let the masculine forces rule your life – or will you rule your own life?
Is it paradise, to be in a place where you serve and are a slave to what others want you to do?
If that is paradise for you, wonderful. It’s not to me and never will be.
I’d rather choose to be Lilith every day than Eve once in my life.
I know who I am and what I stand for and it’s time for change in a world still ruled by men.
Lilith is a role model as to how.
DARE to be DIFFERENT! Dare to change and follow your own rules! Live a life filled with awe and wonder and don’t let others tell you how the world works, experience it for yourself.
Be curious, go out there and shine your light.
Love yourself – so much that you need no one else to love you, because that’s when your indepence starts and you can then give love to others without the feeling of needing to feel the love come from others.
You are loved by all-that-is.
La Ara

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