…when the time is right. True love.
It took me many years of learning, dreaming, self work and even when Tim came into my life it took another 1.5 years when we finally truly committed, knowing that we wanted a life together.
I can tell you that even if not every day is without misunderstandings, every day gets better.
It was a long time coming but the time did come. And I do believe that there is the perfect person for each of us out there.
Nevertheless, we have to stop desiring that the person has to be perfect. S/he should be allowed to be imperfect. Have flaws, make you scream at times.
If we want the other person to accept us as who we are, we gotta give the other person the chance to be her/himself without the desire to change him/her.
Appreciate those little imperfections. It’s those that you would miss most, those that make the person special.
You don’t want to have a robot and you don’t want to have a person who is only strong and flawless. Wouldn’t that be kind of boring?
Don’t you want to discover each other? Talk about the past, get to know each other and have days where one of you is weak and needs comfort?
True love accepts the past without bringing the past into the present or future.
It’s true understanding of the other person that will bring you as close as two people can be.
Don’t listen to friends or family when it comes to matters of the heart. Let them be there for you when you need to talk and let them show you their perspective, but in the end it’s only about what your heart truly feels.
Not your ego or your mind, your heart.
Your intuition will guide you when you are on the right path.
Love will come to you when the time is right.
So give it a chance when it knocks on the fortress of your heart and let it in.
Whoever sees something special in you is worth exploring.
You will see that this journey never ends.
But it starts with you. And you alone!
La Ara
