To fall in love, to rise in love, to stay in love and to never let this feeling of newness, deepest admiration and romance go…
To make each other laugh and find these special times that are so unique to the two of you that no one else could ever replace them… all this takes work.
Inner work and work with each other.
It’s the most rewarding work and the more of it you realize together, the happier you will be.
When I met Tim 4 years ago, I did not know what kind of rollercoaster ride we would go through in the first two years.
We were never able to commit because circumstances didn’t allow it.
But with the decision of working together as songwriters and the decision that we want to cherish each other every day, life changed and now we have been on the road together for almost 2 years.
I can look back and smile with all my heart…
BECAUSE I would have NEVER wanted one single day to be different.
We both went through tremendous change and if one of these days wouldn’t habe existed, we wouldn’t be where we are today.
I gave up on a lot of so-called-dreams so I could start co-creating with my partner and have even better, more exciting dreams with him together!
Some of my dreams were living and staying in New York (NYC can be very lonely when you don’t have the man you love by your side and the dating rules, I will NEVER understand…).
Becoming a star on Broadway was a dream of my childhood – it was an idea and an escape. I can use my voice in many ways. I have written my own songs since I was 13 and now I can actually reach people through “From the Aether”.
I’d rather be free than bound to peoples’ opinion every day of my life…
I grew out of those dreams and made something new, something bigger, together with Tim.
I look back at us and realize that I would have never dreamed that I could be so happy…
That I could call this man, who has touched my heart in so many ways, my partner.
All that would have not been possible if Tim and I wouldn’t have done our own inner work.
He started to call me into his life, years before I even thought of coming to New York – and would we not have met through a show I once did – paths could have gone completely different paths…
But it was fate!!!
Love can be dirty and hurtful at times. You need to look into yourself, forgive yourself, the people around you and love yourself the most.
Stop letting others tell you who you are – and find out who you truly are and what you are meant to do here on this planet.
You will attract the right person when you are ready.
And with this wonderful person you will attract the right situations and things you want in your life (a home, adventure, everything your heart desires).
I am proof of that. But that will be another story
La Ara
