Category Archives: selflove

To Rise in Love…

To fall in love, to rise in love, to stay in love and to never let this feeling of newness, deepest admiration and romance go…

To make each other laugh and find these special times that are so unique to the two of you that no one else could ever replace them… all this takes work.

Inner work and work with each other.

It’s the most rewarding work and the more of it you realize together, the happier you will be.

When I met Tim 4 years ago, I did not know what kind of rollercoaster ride we would go through in the first two years.

We were never able to commit because circumstances didn’t allow it.

But with the decision of working together as songwriters and the decision that we want to cherish each other every day, life changed and now we have been on the road together for almost 2 years.

I can look back and smile with all my heart…

BECAUSE I would have NEVER wanted one single day to be different.

We both went through tremendous change and if one of these days wouldn’t habe existed, we wouldn’t be where we are today.

I gave up on a lot of so-called-dreams so I could start co-creating with my partner and have even better, more exciting dreams with him together!

Some of my dreams were living and staying in New York (NYC can be very lonely when you don’t have the man you love by your side and the dating rules, I will NEVER understand…).

Becoming a star on Broadway was a dream of my childhood – it was an idea and an escape. I can use my voice in many ways. I have written my own songs since I was 13 and now I can actually reach people through “From the Aether”.

I’d rather be free than bound to peoples’ opinion every day of my life…

I grew out of those dreams and made something new, something bigger, together with Tim.

I look back at us and realize that I would have never dreamed that I could be so happy…

That I could call this man, who has touched my heart in so many ways, my partner.

All that would have not been possible if Tim and I wouldn’t have done our own inner work.

He started to call me into his life, years before I even thought of coming to New York – and would we not have met through a show I once did – paths could have gone completely different paths…

But it was fate!!!

Love can be dirty and hurtful at times. You need to look into yourself, forgive yourself, the people around you and love yourself the most.

Stop letting others tell you who you are – and find out who you truly are and what you are meant to do here on this planet.

You will attract the right person when you are ready.
And with this wonderful person you will attract the right situations and things you want in your life (a home, adventure, everything your heart desires).
I am proof of that. But that will be another story
La Ara

We are Magical

What we don’t realize is that we all ARE magical.

Every thought we have, every word we say – it’s all magic.

People are “scared” of magic, but we do it all the time – whether we believe in it and do it consciously or not.
We don’t have a choice… Magic happens the moment you put out a thought or say something and believe it with all your heart and soul…

So why not “practice” it with a special awareness, with that special frequency of knowing that everything-that-is is magical and that there is a certain responsibility that comes with it…

With every word I say and every emotion/frequency I bring with me, every quote I make on Facebook or on my blog – there is a magical imprint.

With every movie I watch or produce – every role I play (in reality for others or on stage)  – I can change someone elses’ life – for the better or worse.

Being alive and breathing is magical in itself.

We live on this planet and we have a responsibility towards everyone and everything in our life.

Let us not waste our precious years, making ourselves and other people unhappy, let us spread the frequency of love instead of of hate…

The most magical aspect of life is to manifest the dreams you have always had – and speak them into being.

Don’t let others tell you, they won’t come true. It only shows that their own frequency is lower than it should and could be. It only proves that you can excel in your magical life and make your own dreams come true…

Allow yourself to create the world you want to live in, live your dreams by manifesting them…

You can do so by listening to affirmations or saying them out loud, by listening to music that makes you feel good, by generally feeling great…

Ask yourself how you feel today and what your motivation today is…

Ask yourself:

Is my heart open? Am I allowing myself to feel great today?
Do I go through the world as a follower or as a leader?

Will I live my life filled with joy today or will I continue to complain, to nag, to criticize others because I am not happy with my own circumstances?

Remembering that every moment there is magic in our lives, makes us happy, makes us feel blessed and have a grateful attitude towards life.

Remember that YOU are MAGICAL!

Everything happens for a reason.
La Ara

A Queen…

…does not chase people or situations.
She is enjoying her life in the fullest – no matter if with others or on her own.
She is open to all-possibilities and gives without expectation…

The transition from a princess to a queen has made her an entirely new person… and the people from the past that don’t understand it are not worth of her time, for she no longer lives in fear or regret. She is aware that everything in her past was necessary, but it’s no longer something she has to hold on to.

She no longer has the time to ask herself, why people do what they do. She is focused on her own journey – and the people who want to be part of it, are always welcome.
Everything else will leave on its own, because the law of attraction will dissolve negative, restraining energies around her.

Motivated by her inner voices, she does things out of her heart.

She gives without holding back, because she knows that the more you give, the more
beauty will come to you…

A queen believes in divine timing.

She knows: so many people are caught in inner restrains, feeling it’s all about work and not allowing themselves to actually enjoy the journey.

Being grateful and happy is the actual “work”, but it’s not about being happy because of a situation or person – but being happy as an approach to life.

A queen does not give others the permission to make her feel anything else but love.

She’d rather be by herself than surrounded by people who are filled with anger, aggression, jealousy or hate.

When something brings her down, she simply leaves, without the need of explaining herself.

She knows that the people who she surrounds herself with, will reflect on who she is.

Every situation that would have bothered her when she was not owning her kingdom (vibration), gives her peace: she knows, every day is a new chance – a chance to spread even more love, joy and happiness into the world.

She no longer feels responsible for the way others see her, for she knows, it’s their own projection, their own opinion, mainly of themselves which reflects on her, and not who she truly is.
If someone is afraid of being around her, it’s because s/he’s afraid that her happiness could be contagious and s/he no longer has the chance to complain about life…

She is loving, fun to be around with, playful and always has new ideas that bring out the inner child:

For even if the princess has been transformed into a queen, she will always look at the world with the eyes of an innocent child: filled with awe, wonder and the inner feeling that she is destined to do something powerful within her life.

La Ara

Let me tell you a little secret…

In order for true love to appear in your life,

you don’t have to change at all.

The person who is right for you will see your magic and won’t want you to change, even if you laugh like a unicorn-fairy… 😘

All you have to do is discover your own magic and discern who the people are who truly belong into your life and who don’t.

But what you need to do is shed the layers of the masks that you protect yourself with, so that the other can recognize you for who you truly are.

This person will always see the queen/king in you, and recognize him/herself through you.

Learn to appreciate the beautiful, blossoming being that you are.

Trust the journey.

The day of togetherness is coming so much quicker than you think – and once you’re there, the ‘lonely’ journey is over and a new adventure will take place.

La Ara

The Queen

No longer fearing her own shadows, she steps from the darkness into the light.

The steady beat of her heart will guide her.

She is in the process of becoming:
Princess to queen, knowledge to wisdom.

The queen wears her crown with honor and is respected by the ones who see her shine.

Wisdom can not be learned, it comes through patience, observation and recognition.

A queen will never be completely grown up because her inner child will always be sacred to her.
She is awake, conscious and present but always has the heart of a child.

At one point, every woman goes through a transformation: from a princess into a queen.

It is a choice, it doesn´t just happen.

The moment she has learned the lessons of life and looks at herself with pride, is the moment she transforms into the queen that she has always been deep inside.

The queen appreciates each moment and accepts herself as a source of love, truth and wisdom.


Truly loving yourself will change you, dear Queen – the moment you realize that it is up to you to make your dreams come true.

La Ara

And suddenly you realize that it is okay to not love everyone

It is okay to love yourself more than a toxic relationship with ‘friends’ or ‘family ‘.

You don’t need to try to fix everything.

Sometimes people need to leave your heart so you can make room for new people, but most and for all, you need to make room for yourself.

If you spend all your life thinking about how to make life better for others, you have no time and space for the love you need for yourself.

The truth is that there is only one person you live with from the beginning to the end – and that is you.

If you don’t put yourself first, what does that say about the relationship to the most important person in your life?

Love yourself.

Live a life that fulfills you, a life that makes you feel rich in your soul.

Everyone around you will be happy if you make yourself first priority because that means they have a happy person surrounding them.

And happiness is contagious…

If you allow yourself to be happy, you allow everyone else to be happy, too.

Ideally there will be no gossip or ill wishes towards others.

You won’t find the time to focus on negativity.

There will be no hurting someone else,

No pain inside because you transformed it into something good.

We all have our days where we feel less ourselves than usual and that is okay, too, because Loving yourself means accepting yourself as who you are.

This way you can love everyone else the way they are, too.

It is okay not to love everyone.

Let them go and wish them well.

They don’t live your life, they don’t have your dreams.

But most importantly, if they don’t love you as you are it means they don’t love themselves in the first place.

So forgive them and walk away – the right people will stay with you because they can’t imagine a life without you.

La Ara

Set yourself free – and live!

You are here to live.
Not just to give…

The only way to truly experience yourself is by allowing your ego to be here, to exist.

 

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Enjoy life without the constant inner chains, without holding yourself back continously.

There is a huge difference between being egoistical all the time, taking things away from others, denying others the right to live their life etc… and doing things for yourself that do you good, celebrating life because you deserve it – and focusing on yourself instead of always focusing on others and their dramas.

Don’t be selfless all the time and only focus on others. Finding the balance is of importance. You don’t want to lose yourself while you take care of others, you want to find a way of integrating both.

Your ego is NOT your enemy.
It is the little voice inside of you that says: it’s my turn now. I did so much for others. I want to find a way to make myself happy and not worry about everyone else all the time.

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It helps you to enjoy that which is given to you.

You don’t have to exhaust yourself perminently by living in the outside world by “serving” all the time.

So many people think they have to give up their ego in order to ascend: no. Integrate it. Accept that you have one. Your ego is part of your physical assignment. Not to overcome it but to be-come it.

You are you.

Don’t abandon that which you are…
La Ara