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We are Magical

What we don’t realize is that we all ARE magical.

Every thought we have, every word we say – it’s all magic.

People are “scared” of magic, but we do it all the time – whether we believe in it and do it consciously or not.
We don’t have a choice… Magic happens the moment you put out a thought or say something and believe it with all your heart and soul…

So why not “practice” it with a special awareness, with that special frequency of knowing that everything-that-is is magical and that there is a certain responsibility that comes with it…

With every word I say and every emotion/frequency I bring with me, every quote I make on Facebook or on my blog – there is a magical imprint.

With every movie I watch or produce – every role I play (in reality for others or on stage)  – I can change someone elses’ life – for the better or worse.

Being alive and breathing is magical in itself.

We live on this planet and we have a responsibility towards everyone and everything in our life.

Let us not waste our precious years, making ourselves and other people unhappy, let us spread the frequency of love instead of of hate…

The most magical aspect of life is to manifest the dreams you have always had – and speak them into being.

Don’t let others tell you, they won’t come true. It only shows that their own frequency is lower than it should and could be. It only proves that you can excel in your magical life and make your own dreams come true…

Allow yourself to create the world you want to live in, live your dreams by manifesting them…

You can do so by listening to affirmations or saying them out loud, by listening to music that makes you feel good, by generally feeling great…

Ask yourself how you feel today and what your motivation today is…

Ask yourself:

Is my heart open? Am I allowing myself to feel great today?
Do I go through the world as a follower or as a leader?

Will I live my life filled with joy today or will I continue to complain, to nag, to criticize others because I am not happy with my own circumstances?

Remembering that every moment there is magic in our lives, makes us happy, makes us feel blessed and have a grateful attitude towards life.

Remember that YOU are MAGICAL!

Everything happens for a reason.
La Ara

Let me tell you a little secret…

In order for true love to appear in your life,

you don’t have to change at all.

The person who is right for you will see your magic and won’t want you to change, even if you laugh like a unicorn-fairy… 😘

All you have to do is discover your own magic and discern who the people are who truly belong into your life and who don’t.

But what you need to do is shed the layers of the masks that you protect yourself with, so that the other can recognize you for who you truly are.

This person will always see the queen/king in you, and recognize him/herself through you.

Learn to appreciate the beautiful, blossoming being that you are.

Trust the journey.

The day of togetherness is coming so much quicker than you think – and once you’re there, the ‘lonely’ journey is over and a new adventure will take place.

La Ara

And suddenly you realize that it is okay to not love everyone

It is okay to love yourself more than a toxic relationship with ‘friends’ or ‘family ‘.

You don’t need to try to fix everything.

Sometimes people need to leave your heart so you can make room for new people, but most and for all, you need to make room for yourself.

If you spend all your life thinking about how to make life better for others, you have no time and space for the love you need for yourself.

The truth is that there is only one person you live with from the beginning to the end – and that is you.

If you don’t put yourself first, what does that say about the relationship to the most important person in your life?

Love yourself.

Live a life that fulfills you, a life that makes you feel rich in your soul.

Everyone around you will be happy if you make yourself first priority because that means they have a happy person surrounding them.

And happiness is contagious…

If you allow yourself to be happy, you allow everyone else to be happy, too.

Ideally there will be no gossip or ill wishes towards others.

You won’t find the time to focus on negativity.

There will be no hurting someone else,

No pain inside because you transformed it into something good.

We all have our days where we feel less ourselves than usual and that is okay, too, because Loving yourself means accepting yourself as who you are.

This way you can love everyone else the way they are, too.

It is okay not to love everyone.

Let them go and wish them well.

They don’t live your life, they don’t have your dreams.

But most importantly, if they don’t love you as you are it means they don’t love themselves in the first place.

So forgive them and walk away – the right people will stay with you because they can’t imagine a life without you.

La Ara

Why it’s time to let go of your past

Only when you are at a point in your life
where the past has absolutely no relevance for you anymore,
will you be able to step into a new life cycle.

I spent most of my life
thinking I wasn’t enough and worse:

I was consciously LOOKING for a problem in my psyche,
thinking something HAS to be wrong with me
or my life
because people would tell me
that something has to be wrong with me.

So instead of listening to my heart
and realizing that my life is beautiful and brilliant
and that one day the right partner would come into my life
to share the beautiful path with me,
I went on a soul search in order to FIND
something that’s wrong with me.

And of course I found it.

 

Whatever your focus is on,
that will enfold in front of your eyes infinitely.

 

It took me years
to let go
of the ‘problems’ I thought I had.

Now I am in a place where the past
truly doesn’t matter anymore.
I am even grateful for it
because it made me to who I am today.

I am grateful for wonderful parents who showed me
love, respect and appreciation
and wonderful friends to whom I will always feel connected to.

Yet, the past is no longer a burden to me
or a package that I need to carry around with me.

Time is all we have

and the truth is
that time has been made up by humans
so we feel caught in it.

No one has the right to judge you at where you are at in whatever age you are.

There are people out there that appear to have
everything they ever wanted at the age of 30
and then they fall into a deep hole
because it was stripped away from them.

Once you are close to your soul’s purpose,
time is no longer of the essence.

You live every day,
moment to moment,
and enjoy what Spirit has in store for you.

The law of attraction will do the rest.

Helen Davies

Live like a Gypsy

Don’t be too obsessed with the things you ‘own’
because that’s all an illusion.

We don’t own anything on this planet,
we are guests who are here to enrich
the world with our present energy.

Take your heart with you,
everywhere you go
and make your heart your home.

We don’t live forever
but we are here to enjoy that which is given to us by spirit.
Live in the present, not in the past or future
and make change your best friend
because change is the only thing that is consistent in your life.

Trust in a Higher Power
and that it will guide you,
if you stop thinking too much and rather feel.

Don’t try to grasp things you can’t control.
Respect the earth and her nature,
because this is something
that can’t be controlled, and it shouldn’t be.

Let go of people who aren’t right for you,
whether they are friends, lovers or family.
Anyone can be family,
but the title has to be earned.
Blood relationships do not automatically make you family.

Allow others to be free.
You have no right to control anyone but yourself.

Dream big and remind yourself daily
that you are powerful beyond measure,
that you are unique and anything you visualize can manifest.
But you need to free yourself from all the lies you learned
in school, on tv and on the streets.

No one has ever lived your life before,
so make it as special and as magical as you are able to.
Listen to your own voice not to someone in the radio.

By walking through the world without fear
of losing your possessions
and by letting go of what is holding you back,
you own everything because it’s all a part of you.

The minute you let go of control,
you will be guided by higher forces
which will show you the way.

La Ara

 

Set yourself free – and live!

You are here to live.
Not just to give…

The only way to truly experience yourself is by allowing your ego to be here, to exist.

 

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Enjoy life without the constant inner chains, without holding yourself back continously.

There is a huge difference between being egoistical all the time, taking things away from others, denying others the right to live their life etc… and doing things for yourself that do you good, celebrating life because you deserve it – and focusing on yourself instead of always focusing on others and their dramas.

Don’t be selfless all the time and only focus on others. Finding the balance is of importance. You don’t want to lose yourself while you take care of others, you want to find a way of integrating both.

Your ego is NOT your enemy.
It is the little voice inside of you that says: it’s my turn now. I did so much for others. I want to find a way to make myself happy and not worry about everyone else all the time.

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It helps you to enjoy that which is given to you.

You don’t have to exhaust yourself perminently by living in the outside world by “serving” all the time.

So many people think they have to give up their ego in order to ascend: no. Integrate it. Accept that you have one. Your ego is part of your physical assignment. Not to overcome it but to be-come it.

You are you.

Don’t abandon that which you are…
La Ara

SHINE!!!

Shine!

Leave your worries behind and allow your light to come through you!

You were meant to shine, not to stay in darkness.

Of course, without darkness you would have never found the light…

You are here for a reason – you are here because one day, many years ago, your soul wanted to come to this planet to experience contrast.

Pain, suffering, worrying – happiness, gratitude, joy – and so many other states of mind.

You wanted your heart to soar, to fly, to express itself.

See, your mind is a tool – it is not your boss, it’s not meant to rule!

The problem is that the subconscious mind picks up on so much negativity all around you that you think those thoughts are truly yours…

But once you realize that you steer your boat towards the shadows, you can take a different turn and sail towards the light.

The truth is: you can use this tool (your mind) to change your life by pouring more and more good thoughts into your consciousness.

Focus on the sun within your heart – and you will no longer be able to stay in the shadows.

Once the sun has awakened within you, all you can do is shine!

So be what you are the best, be the sun, even if the world around you is filled with shadows.

Believe in yourself – just as much as you believe that the sun shines every day, whether the clouds are in front of the sun or not.

You were born to Shine!
La Ara