Category Archives: Divine Feminine

A Queen…

…does not chase people or situations.
She is enjoying her life in the fullest – no matter if with others or on her own.
She is open to all-possibilities and gives without expectation…

The transition from a princess to a queen has made her an entirely new person… and the people from the past that don’t understand it are not worth of her time, for she no longer lives in fear or regret. She is aware that everything in her past was necessary, but it’s no longer something she has to hold on to.

She no longer has the time to ask herself, why people do what they do. She is focused on her own journey – and the people who want to be part of it, are always welcome.
Everything else will leave on its own, because the law of attraction will dissolve negative, restraining energies around her.

Motivated by her inner voices, she does things out of her heart.

She gives without holding back, because she knows that the more you give, the more
beauty will come to you…

A queen believes in divine timing.

She knows: so many people are caught in inner restrains, feeling it’s all about work and not allowing themselves to actually enjoy the journey.

Being grateful and happy is the actual “work”, but it’s not about being happy because of a situation or person – but being happy as an approach to life.

A queen does not give others the permission to make her feel anything else but love.

She’d rather be by herself than surrounded by people who are filled with anger, aggression, jealousy or hate.

When something brings her down, she simply leaves, without the need of explaining herself.

She knows that the people who she surrounds herself with, will reflect on who she is.

Every situation that would have bothered her when she was not owning her kingdom (vibration), gives her peace: she knows, every day is a new chance – a chance to spread even more love, joy and happiness into the world.

She no longer feels responsible for the way others see her, for she knows, it’s their own projection, their own opinion, mainly of themselves which reflects on her, and not who she truly is.
If someone is afraid of being around her, it’s because s/he’s afraid that her happiness could be contagious and s/he no longer has the chance to complain about life…

She is loving, fun to be around with, playful and always has new ideas that bring out the inner child:

For even if the princess has been transformed into a queen, she will always look at the world with the eyes of an innocent child: filled with awe, wonder and the inner feeling that she is destined to do something powerful within her life.

La Ara

Open…

I am open, my walls are gone – my sensitivity is my strength and my heart is on fire.

No more holding back…

With every day my frequency of joy and love rises and I am home – within myself.

Filled with gratitude that I can live a life of increasing awareness.

No more comparison to others, I am unique and magnificent, my heart is from a different world and I am observing this dimension in a playful way, stepping out as an embodiment of light – spreading magic, miracles and daintiness amongst the ones who cross my path.

If this affirmation resonates with you then use it ☺️

Live your inner truth,
follow your mission in life and stay in your vortex.

We can’t wait for others to save us, it is up to us to make this world a better place – with every step of the way.

Only you have it in your hands.

Don’t let things outside of you distract you.
Go within, shine your light – be the source of light in the darkness – don’t be afraid of your mission in life and of the truth within your cells – don’t be afraid of who-you-are ❤️

La Ara

The Queen

No longer fearing her own shadows, she steps from the darkness into the light.

The steady beat of her heart will guide her.

She is in the process of becoming:
Princess to queen, knowledge to wisdom.

The queen wears her crown with honor and is respected by the ones who see her shine.

Wisdom can not be learned, it comes through patience, observation and recognition.

A queen will never be completely grown up because her inner child will always be sacred to her.
She is awake, conscious and present but always has the heart of a child.

At one point, every woman goes through a transformation: from a princess into a queen.

It is a choice, it doesn´t just happen.

The moment she has learned the lessons of life and looks at herself with pride, is the moment she transforms into the queen that she has always been deep inside.

The queen appreciates each moment and accepts herself as a source of love, truth and wisdom.


Truly loving yourself will change you, dear Queen – the moment you realize that it is up to you to make your dreams come true.

La Ara

Appreciate her

Appreciate every moment with her.

Her smiles, her giggles, don’t take anything for granted.

She is the one who can make you smile on bad days or laugh when you were crying and couldn’t stop on your own.

She will listen to you when you have stories to tell and kiss you when you are overthinking, so you can be present in the moment.

Don’t take these treasures for granted because there may be a time where she can not make you laugh or smile.

Her not being there could make you think too much with your head and not enough with your heart.

So what, she isn’t perfect, doesn’t wear makeup every day or feel the same emotions as you do? She is not you, but she is the one you rose in love with.

Just remember that every day (with her) is a gift – in order for you to remember how precious you are. And how much you deserve to live life in the highest way possible.

Wake up with full appreciation of life, of love and of dreams becoming reality – and you will live a life as a king in which your queen appreciates every moment of being with you.

La Ara

Uncover Me

I want you to uncover me.
To peel my layers of.
What is inside is just for you to see,
You’ll find a new me to love.

I’ll share with you my insecurities,
I’ll hide from you no more.
Continue the search, dive into the depth of me,
You’ll never feel forlorn.

Cause I will find you within my forbidden walls,
Where so far only I was traveling far and wide.
You could hear that inner call,
When I looked for a true man by my side.

Now you are here and I feel fear,
But I’ll no longer give in to it.
I was afraid you’d disappear,
Once we would be intimate.

But you proved me wrong,
The rose has lost her thorns.
It’s why I sing this song,
To show I’m no longer torn.

You’ve shown me now that I can trust,
And love with all my heart.
The past is gone, it turned to dust,
Our future is the start.

So come now and let me uncover
The layers, wrapped around your soul.
We’ve made it this far with each other,
It’s time to lose control.

 

La Ara

(picture taken by my partner Timothy James of “From the Aether”)

Poem to my beloved

My beloved,
I found back to myself again.

To the dreamer, the intuitive heart,
The healer, the wise and ancient soul I always was, but forgot about.
I hid and closed all doors.

I wore a mask out of fear that no one could love me if I was to show my true colors…
but when i did this, i shut you out, too.

You could only try to understand me while standing in front of closed doors, knocking, screaming, asking me to let you in.
Maybe not consciously but your soul did this day and night.

I heard your call but
Caught within my fear, not wanting to face myself, how was I able to be there for you.

And now the time has come to fly into eternal possibility.
You and I, forever free.

La Ara

Relationship – Working On Yourself First!

Ladies, especially the ones who are unhappy with – or angry at – a man right now… I would love to have a conversation with you, from heart to heart.

The other day I was talking to my man about relationships and exes and things really started to get me thinking:

Honestly, what do we women expect from men?
We expect way too much. We want them to be perfect (they have to live up to our expectations) and if they go a little off of the path of perfection, we drop them or badmouth them, in front of friends, family and on Facebook.or we continuously post posts about how we strong women don’t need men yada yada ya. But in the end one of our deepest desires is to be with someone special, right?

Remember… the law of attraction. Like attracts like… and isn’t the man we dated or the man we are with our own reflection?

When I was single I lived in New York by myself for 3 years. Even before that I lived by myself for more than 13 years and it gave me time to truly know myself. No distractions. I was searching for love, yes, but not just any love.
True love. Someone who could be a true partner by my side. I read a lot of books on men and women but most of all on the divine feminine. Since I was 17 I researched and even did my school finals in psychology on ‘Men’s fear on strong women’.

I took the time to discover who I am – read a lot and explored my environment.
I so adored taking myself to a show or a movie and especially out to eat.

I learned to truly enjoy being by myself because I knew there would come a day where I would no longer be by myself. Then I would get to share everything with a special someone but til then I would be my own special someone.

I did not search for someone actively. Maybe that has to do with my stubbornness of loving one man at a time and for a while even if he doesn’t love me back. You can say that’s good or bad, if you like, but it helped me to get here.
That’s how I am, i don’t give up. Not on people, not on friends, not on plans and visions.

I feel lucky that I was that way because it didn’t allow me to go crazy and sleep with every Tom, Dick and Harry… and that’s easy to do in New York City…

When I did go out with someone and things didn’t go the way I wanted them to go: I did a self analysis. I wrote about it, spoke with friends i chose to be my go-to-person and made choices to treat myself better and to have others treat me better.

Most importantly I didn’t say to myself that every man is stupid and that it only had to do with him that things went wrong.

I truly feel that women nowadays have too many high expectations and don’t bring enough to the table themselves.
We want our men to be successful, wealthy, emotionally stable, no mama-boy, spiritually ready… completely complete.

You will never get a ‘perfect ‘ man because we are all human and even if we think we are done with a topic there may still be something inside of us that may need attention later in life.

Let me ask you this:
are you there already? Are you finished, do you completely know what you want in life? Because if not…

Wouldn’t you say we can only expect from someone else something that we have already reached?!?

As soon as we still have our own topics that take up our energy, like past family issues or past dramas and people we can’t forgive… are we really at the point to ask from our men that they have to be ‘better’ than us.

I am in a very fortunate and happy place but my relationship is far from perfect and I wouldn’t want it to be. If it were so, where would be room to grow together?
I am not my partner and he is not me so we can’t expect to understand each other all the time or to read each other’s mind.
Being together in a two room trailer means to accept each other unconditionally with all the flaws we have and I know that I have many flaws!
I thank my partner that he loves me as I am and doesn’t want to try to change me. Yet we talk about everything that isn’t right yet and we will both try to make things better.

Being in a relationship means to go through life together. You can’t expect anyone to catch you if you haven’t caught yourself.

And if you haven’t truly taken the time to get to know yourself, how can you expect someone else to know you?

Just a few thoughts I put out there to anyone who is ready to read it.

Much love,

La Ara