What’s the use of going out into the world – if you feel empty and unhappy?
If you believe in the law of attraction – which always sets in, no matter if you believe in it or not – you will only pull negative experiences into your life – the more you speak about negativity, the more you will see what’s within you outside of you.
Be aware of this fact!
We don’t learn this in school.
No one tells you that what you put out there will get back to you…
We love to listen to the radio, watch movies – and if we really live in them, well, we also pull whatever we hear and watch into our lives…
Let me tell you something.
You, right there – you, reading this article – are a beautiful, unique, infinite being. It’s not up to the world to give you good experience so you can feel good inside – it’s the other way around!
But we are not hearing this often enough.
Somehow we have been trained to only “hear” the negative things. We can’t accept compliments because they don’t feel as natural to us as insults.
Or as I just heard yesterday: compliments don’t stay long enough in our mind, we need an experience to be in our memory for at least 6 seconds to be remembered in the future.
Also, if we do get compliments, we have an automatic mechanisme in our mind that says: he/she’s lying,,,
Why can’t we accept that we are beautiful, complete beings?
Babies are perfect – they may not walk, talk, run around – they are not academically intelligent right at that moment and tell us great philosophies – but do we care?
They are unconditionally loved. They bring such a beauty within them – and if we look into their eyes – we feel that they know EVERYTHING.
Then WE – us “grownups” start to destroy the perfection of the baby by starting to tell the child that is has sooo much to learn. We start arguing, screaming, giving the child the feeling that it knows nothing and will only be loved if it listens to us.
All of us have gone through this.
The good thing about being a grownup is that we can learn to see the beauty withing ourselves again, we can give ourselves compliments and allow ourselves to accept compliments from others.
It’s time to let go of the voices of others and to listen to the only one that counts – our own voice, the voice of love, the voice of your heart.
Go out there and shine, beautiful one! Let out your sparkle!!!
No one can ever be compared to you!!!
La Ara
