Peace, patience, love, mastery and How it all starts with you

Peace, patience, love, mastery.

It all starts when you go within.

Focus on yourself, not someone else.

That’s the key to all things.

First learn to be a master of your own kingdom.

How do you do it?

Learn to be happy, no matter what.

Learn to enjoy life. Take a deep breath and open your true eyes (your physical eyes and the 3rd eye).

See the beauty in your life that is presented to you in the present.
Be in the here and now – not where you could be one day or where you have been in the past.

Forgive yourself. Forgive whoever hurt you.

The past is no longer of importance because only in the present is everything that you wish for, is possible to manifest.

If you need time to forgive others for the things they “did to you”, take your time. Rest, laugh, cry, scream, let out all the anger that is still within you, but at some point you have to let it go because it only keeps you in the prison of your mind. You see, your heart sees only love, it wants to forgive and let the past go – but your mind keeps coming back to the stories from the past which you are still telling yourself.

Control your thoughts. Listen to yourself. Write in a book (diary) and watch your continuous thoughts go back and forth about something you desire but just can’t manifest (yet).

“I wish I could manifest this, but if I do, will I be happy? Am I not interfering with other people’s dreams if I speak out my desire? Am I selfish? What if he has another destiny? I want to be with him, but I don’t want to be with him. I want time to myself but I don’t want to be alone”.

These are just examples of thoughts that can flow through our heads and if we read them out loud, we realize how we continuously produce chaos by having contradicting thoughts all the time.

So, as stated in this post I found:

“You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes.”

Learn to manifest what you truly want by focusing on a positive and beautiful outcome and yet being happy in the now.

When you are on your own, use the time to truly figure out what you want. Don’t wait for someone else to figure it out for you.

Use the time you have when you are single, to become the best version of yourself.

Ask yourself: would I like to date myself right now?

Why don’t you try it out?
Take yourself out for a nice dinner (or take-out food) or watch a movie at home. Have a fun time, alone – all by yourself.

Whether you will be with your twin flame in this life time or not, the important step is towards yourself.

You can’t expect your partner to figure things out for you. Of course you can inspire each other – but this is YOUR life.

This is YOUR body, this is YOUR time to shine.
So don’t waste your time with contradicting thoughts.
Free yourself from fear and focus on becoming the best version of yourself.

Then you have a glow around you that will attract everything beautiful into your life.

The universe wants to give you EVERYTHING you want! But it can’t help you if you continuously contradict yourself. It can’t answer your “prayers” if you wish for something today and don’t want it tomorrow only to ask for it the day after again!

Focus on what you want and allow yourself to have it in the present, in the moment. Whatever you want is already there.

Remember that. Without a doubt.

And you will manifest whatever you desire!

Peace, patience, love, mastery.

It all starts when you go within.

Focus on yourself, not someone else.

That’s the key to all things.

Be present and the universe will give you the presents you have been asking for!

La Ara

Published by La Ara

I have traveled all around the world and lived in Germany, Austria, the East Coast of the United Sates and the West Coast. After 4 exciting years in New York City where I sang and lived in a church, another great year in and 2 years of traveling from the East Coast to the West Coast in our Travel Trailer, my partner Tim and I have decided to stay in one place for a while, focusing on writing and inspiring people from all around the world. Our Home now is in California, the state we have always dreamed of. My posts mostly come from the inspiration I find within myself, from my journey through life and on the road with our trailer. What I don’t make to a blog gets turned into music. Tim and I are Singer-Songwriters with the Name: From the Aether. You can find our website here:

2 thoughts on “Peace, patience, love, mastery and How it all starts with you

  1. Well there are many paths to self-realization. Maybe so much wanting and desire is a trap. Maybe forgiveness is not what those you forgive or you yourself really need. Maybe stuff happened because you made it happen, and why did you do that? There is no judgment or critique or comparison, it’s just what I have been wondering.

    1. From my own experience it was when I let everything go around me and focused on myself, felt more than thought, released what bothered me, that I got closer to myself.
      Letting go of thoughts and focusing on your heart.
      Releasing what others wanted from me and focusing what I wanted for myself.
      That’s when I came in union with partner, that’s when my dreams started to become reality.
      I lived in NYC all by myself for 3 years and experienced being all-one there. It was a great and amazing time and I learned a lot which I am sharing now.
      All the things I write are suggestions.
      There is never just one way. There are many, but I often have friends ask me how to find peace… and this is my answer.
      Have a great day 😊

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