BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

If I would say
only talk about things you truly believe in and live by
you would probably agree with me: that sounds absolutely right and doable…

But the question is:

Do we do that?
Do we really do that? Are we living by that which we are saying? Do we truly trust that only good things happen to us?

If you truly believe in something, you don’t have to repeat it over and over again, because you know it’s going to happen.

If you “know”, someone loves you, you won’t say: but he loves me, I am sure he loves me – I can feel he loves me. Awww but he doesn’t love me. Or DOES he love me? Why doesn’t he call me? He said he’d be there, he didn’t come. No, he doesn’t love me… But yet, he loves me… right???

or:

I am good at this job. I am great at this job. Damn, I suck. I am so bad at this – and yet, I am meant for this job. Why don’t I get a promotion? Man, I want a promotion! But I’m so bad at this. Come on now! I deserve it!!!

Can you see how often you contradict yourself with your own words? Sometimes even within one or two sentences…

We are sending out so many mixed signals into the world, to our friends and families that the universe often throws its hands up in dispair ūüėČ
Those insecurities inside ourselves, make miracles/magic/wishes impossible to come true.

If we order something at amazon, we don’t call or write them every day and ask if they sent our order away, do we?
We know it will arrive – we are excited about it – it will be here any day soon – but we will not walk around with mixed emotions of maybe – maybe nots.

I myself have come to the point where I realized – there are many things I trust in.
But then there are the biggest dreams – the highest goals, wishes, desires that I have – that seem so far away – like: being with the man I love, having a career as a singer, a healer – there is so much more that I want to do in this life – I want to write, I want to entertain, to inspire… – and there are moments where I believe I will never reach any of them.

Until now I did not feel worthy enough.
I didn’t trust that I deserve my dreams to come true.

Who really believes in miracles?
“Miracles are for others – not for me.” “They are Fairytales”.

So here’s the thing:

If YOU don’t believe in yourself and that you are here for a reason – if YOU don’t KNOW deep inside of you, that you can achieve everything you ever desired – who will?
WHO will if not you?

It’s wonderful to have people who believe in you – it’s amazing to have parents behind you, amazing friends who tell you, you are awesome and you’ll make it big – but if you don’t start to trust your heart, your imagination and that there is something BIG happening for you out there, as soon as you truly believe in yourself – you will never get there.

Start to listen to yourself when you speak.

Are you postive when it comes to your self-awareness and your qualities?
As an artist, a writer, a healer, a doctor Рno matter what you do Рdo you believe (or even better: KNOW) that you have a valuable contribution to give to the world?

Are you able to inspire with words, thoughts or deeds?

If you only had one day to live, what would you do? What do you want others to remember you by?

Are you ready?

Then go out there and fulfill your DESTINY!
Change the world by changing your inner world.

Be the unique YOU that you are meant to be… don’t try to be like anyone¬†else – there are enough out there who already are, yet only very few who are aware of their true being.

  Be one of those!!!

Dare to be different!

Trust in your beauty! Your Awesomness!! Your Power!!!

And Please:

Be careful what you say about yourself. Keep a positve, beautiful picture of yourself in mind, the highest version of yourself – don’t trust others opinions who think they may know you…

Discern what you know about yourself from what you heard about yourself. Be honest if you haven’t gotten to the best self-image yet. You are able to glow and shine within an instant, by changing your self-perception and projecting this new version of you into the world! Go and be! Flow, enjoy the world. See it with new eyes – the eyes of the marvellous¬†you that you are…

You have the choice to see yourself with new eyes EVERY DAY.
Let every cell of your body feel your inner beauty! You will see – the perception of the outer world will change if you change your inner world and become aware of the fact that you are a soul with a vessel to move around with and enjoy what the world has to give you!

Love to you all!!!

La Ara

Shine

What’s the use of going out into the world – if you feel empty and unhappy?

If you believe in the law of attraction – which always sets in, no matter if you believe in it or not – you will only pull negative experiences into your life – the more you speak about negativity, the more you will see what’s within you outside of you.

Be aware of this fact!

We don’t learn this in school.

No one tells you that what you put out there will get back to you…
We love to listen to the radio, watch movies – and if we really live in them, well, we also pull whatever we hear and watch into our lives…

Let me tell you something.

You, right there – you, reading this article – are a beautiful, unique, infinite being. It’s not up to the world to give you good experience so you can feel good inside – it’s the other way around!

But we are not hearing this often enough.

Somehow we have been trained to only “hear” the negative things. We can’t accept compliments because they don’t feel as natural to us as insults.
Or as I just heard yesterday: compliments don’t stay long enough in our mind, we need an experience to be in our memory for at least 6 seconds to be remembered in the future.

Also, if we do get compliments, we have an automatic mechanisme in our mind that says: he/she’s lying,,,

Why can’t we accept that we are beautiful, complete beings?
Babies are perfect – they may not walk, talk, run around – they are not academically intelligent right at that moment and tell us great philosophies – but do we care?
They are unconditionally loved. They bring such a beauty within them – and if we look into their eyes – we feel that they know EVERYTHING.

Then WE – us “grownups” start to destroy the perfection of the baby by starting to tell the child that is has sooo much to learn. We start arguing, screaming, giving the child the feeling that it knows nothing and will only be loved if it listens to us.

All of us have gone through this.

The good thing about being a grownup is that we can learn to see the beauty withing ourselves again, we can give ourselves compliments and allow ourselves to accept compliments from others.

It’s time to let go of the voices of others and to listen to the only one that counts – our own voice, the voice of love, the voice of your heart.

Go out there and shine, beautiful one! Let out your sparkle!!!

No one can ever be compared to you!!!

La Ara